exchange: replace a "not x in ys" by more Pythonic "x not in ys"
Found by one of our (Google-)internal tools.
Differential Revision: https://phab.mercurial-scm.org/D7546
[tool.black]
line-length = 80
exclude = '''
build/
| wheelhouse/
| dist/
| packages/
| \.hg/
| \.mypy_cache/
| \.venv/
| mercurial/thirdparty/
| contrib/python-zstandard/
'''
skip-string-normalization = true
quiet = true