help: improve merge-tools topic, describe --tool and clarify details
This doesn't make it simpler, but it makes it more correct.
With help from erikz, mg and abuehl.
$ mkdir a
$ cd a
$ hg init
$ echo 123 > a
$ hg add a
$ hg commit -m "a" -u a
$ cd ..
$ mkdir b
$ cd b
$ hg init
$ echo 321 > b
$ hg add b
$ hg commit -m "b" -u b
$ hg pull ../a
pulling from ../a
searching for changes
abort: repository is unrelated
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$ hg pull -f ../a
pulling from ../a
searching for changes
warning: repository is unrelated
adding changesets
adding manifests
adding file changes
added 1 changesets with 1 changes to 1 files (+1 heads)
(run 'hg heads' to see heads, 'hg merge' to merge)
$ hg heads
changeset: 1:9a79c33a9db3
tag: tip
parent: -1:000000000000
user: a
date: Thu Jan 01 00:00:00 1970 +0000
summary: a
changeset: 0:01f8062b2de5
user: b
date: Thu Jan 01 00:00:00 1970 +0000
summary: b