rust-dirstatemap: use `get_node_mut` instead or `get_or_insert_node` This (along with the docstring), makes it more obvious that we're not expecting to insert a node here. This is less prone to bugs in later refactorings. Differential Revision: https://phab.mercurial-scm.org/D12530

rust-dirstatemap: add `each_ancestor` argument to `get_node_mut` This forces the callers to think about if the counters in the ancestors need to be adjusted. Differential Revision: https://phab.mercurial-scm.org/D12529