rust: mostly avoid streaming zstd decompression
Streaming ZStd decompression seems slightly slower, and
the API we use makes it very inconvenient to re-use the
decompression context.
Instead of using that, use the buffer-backed version,
because we can give a reasonable-ish size estimate.
skip ignored directories if -i or --all not specified
$ hg init t
$ cd t
$ echo 'ignored' > .hgignore
$ hg ci -qA -m init -d'2 0'
$ mkdir ignored
$ ls
ignored
$ hg purge -v --no-confirm
$ ls
ignored