merge: have merge.update use a matcher instead of partial fn
This is relatively rarely used functionality, but migrating this to a
matcher will make future work on narrow clones more feasible.
https://bz.mercurial-scm.org/1089
$ hg init
$ mkdir a
$ echo a > a/b
$ hg ci -Am m
adding a/b
$ hg rm a
removing a/b (glob)
$ hg ci -m m a
$ mkdir a b
$ echo a > a/b
$ hg ci -Am m
adding a/b
$ hg rm a
removing a/b (glob)
$ cd b
Relative delete:
$ hg ci -m m ../a
$ cd ..