rust-dirstatemap: add `set_cached_mtime` helper method
This will help remove the `get_or_insert` method, which is dangerous because it
does not take the `DirstateMap` counters into account
Differential Revision: https://phab.mercurial-scm.org/D12526
#require execbit
$ hg init repo
$ cd repo
$ echo foo > foo
$ chmod 644 foo
$ hg ci -qAm '644'
$ chmod 755 foo
$ hg ci -qAm '755'
reverting to rev 0
$ hg revert -a -r 0
reverting foo
$ hg st
M foo
$ hg diff --git
diff --git a/foo b/foo
old mode 100755
new mode 100644
$ cd ..