notify: add maxdiffstat option to truncate long file lists
Large scale changes like a new GCC version can easily result in 1MB+
emails due to diffstat alone. The new maxdiffstat option truncates the
list similar to what maxdiff already provides for the diffs.
Differential Revision: https://phab.mercurial-scm.org/D3402
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['Hello, Fo, =;:<o', 'Hello, Bar']