sshpeer: add a method to check if a doublepipe is closed
So we can tell in a next commit if we're trying to close an already
closed connection or not (in which case, we may warn).
Differential Revision: https://phab.mercurial-scm.org/D9996
sshpeer: make sshpeer.close() close the underlying connection
So the connection can be closed eagerly in future commits, instead of
relying on __del__.
Differential Revision: https://phab.mercurial-scm.org/D9995