largefiles: use `hacky_extension_update_file` in `updatelfiles` This is what the function is meant for.

largefiles: use `hacky_extension_update_file` in `synclfdirstate` This is what the function is meant for.

largefiles: use `hacky_extension_update_file` in `openlfdirstate` This is what the function is meant for.

win32text: make the hacky call cover more cases Now that I understand what this is doing, It seems like the case for `p1_tracked` were covered by neither the code nor the test. Now the code cover it at least.

win32text: drop the `changing_parents` context in revert upgrade We are not changing parents here, so let us not pretend we do.

win32text: clean up and clarify the post-revert hack of dirstate The change is unrelated to changing parents and should not be a in a "changing_parents" context. This call is quite hacky, but now it is at least explicitly hacky. We will drop the `changing_parents` context in the next changesets, but we kept this change simple to help readability.

dirstate: introduce a `hacky_extension_update_file` method See inline documentation for details.

mq: properly take the wlock during the full qfold operation Otherwise the operation could be raced… for unknown result.