mq: write the dirstate before stripping I am not certain why it is dirty (probably the `repo.setparent` call a right before. However I know we need it flushed before the repository starts to be stripped.

dirstate: simplify the shelve hack to not go through the disk We already have the data in memory, so why not simply keep the data in memory? This avoid abusing the `savebackup/restorebackup` logic and will make our life easier.