rust-matchers: implement `visit_children_set` for `FileMatcher`
As per the removed inline comment, this will become useful in a future patch
in this series as the `IncludeMatcher` is introduced.
Differential Revision: https://phab.mercurial-scm.org/D7914
manifest: move matches method to be outside the interface
In order to adequately smoke out any legacy consumers of the method, we rename
it to _matches so it's clear that it's class-private. To my amazement, all
consumers of this method really only wanted matching filenames, not a full
filtered manifest.
Differential Revision: https://phab.mercurial-scm.org/D8085