tests: improve test-patchbomb-tls.t by by logging errors and data
The actual SSL error might be like:
::1 ssl error: [SSL: TLSV1_ALERT_UNKNOWN_CA] tlsv1 alert unknown ca (_ssl.c:1002)
and will probably vary so much that it can't be checked in the test. It is
however very useful when debugging failures.
tests: show test-patchbomb-tls.t smtp server log
Improve test coverage by exposing what the smtp server actually receives.
Make dummystmtpd redirect stderr to a log file.