push-dests: move the code around missing default dest inside `get_push_paths`
This function has a clear semantic and moving the code dealing with this inside
it will help reduce duplication.
Differential Revision: https://phab.mercurial-scm.org/D10385
push-dests: rework the handling of default value
This new core is more straightforward and doing this early will make the next
changeset simpler.
Differential Revision: https://phab.mercurial-scm.org/D10384